Mindful Reset: How to Let Go, Slow Down, and Realign This December
- Alexa Birch

- Dec 3
- 5 min read
Updated: 16 hours ago
December is a time of joy and cheer, but also reflection and preparation. We look forward to what comes next while reflecting on what was and what we would like to be different in the new year. This December I am inviting you to let go of what is holding you back, slow down and enjoy what is, and realign with what you value. In this guide, I'll share ways to release stress, simplify your routines, and prepare your body, mind, and spirit for the new year.

Why the End of the Year is the Perfect Time for a Mental and Emotional Reset
Naturally, when we come to the end of something it prompts us to look backward and reflect on what we've learned and what changes we would like to make moving forward. If you've had a similar experience to many of us living in the US this year has been draining. It seems that every day we're being innundated with information that produced an emotional response, often unpleasant, leading to feelings of exhaustion and overwhelm. Paying attention to what depletes your and what replenished it can be helpful going into the new year so that you can develop resilience.
How to Declutter Your Mind and Environment
Clutter isn't just physical – it can be present in your mind as well as your environment, leaving you feeling stressed, overwhelmed, drained, and moody. As the saying goes, "a cluttered environment reflectsa cluttered mind". This reflects a cyclical relationship: external disorganization can increase internal stress and chaos while a cluttered mind can make it more difficult to maintain an organized space. Here are some tips on how to declutter your life and start the new year in a clean and organized space:
Start with your physical space
Choose one area: Focus on your desk, a drawer, or a closet.
Sort with intention: Keep what you need or love; donate, recycle, or discard the rest.
Create functional spaces: Designate seperate areas for work, rest, and relaxation.
Maintain daily habits: Spend 5-10 minutes each day tidying to prevent clutter from piling up.
Clear your mind through journaling
Brain dump daily: Write down tasks, worries, and ideas without filtering.
Prioritize: Identify what truly matters and let go of the rest.
Reflect weekly: Review your notes, celebrate progress, and adjust goals.
Limit digial overload
Unsubscribe from emails and notifications you don’t need.
Organize folders and files: Create a simple system for easy access.
Limit screen time: Schedule “tech-free” periods to recharge your mind.
Practice mindfulness and mental reset techniques
Mindfulness: Even 5-10 minutes of focused breathing can calm racing thoughts.
Deep breathing or body scans: Bring awareness to your body and release tension.
Visualization: Picture your clutter being swept away or a calm, organized space.
Get rid of emotional baggage
Identify lingering emotions: Journaling or talking with a trusted friend helps.
Forgive and release: Let go of resentment, guilt, or regrets.
Set boundaries: Protect your energy by limiting toxic relationships or commitments.
Consistency is key to maintaining a clutter-free mind and environment.
Quick Grounding and Breathing Techniques
When stress, anxiety, or overwhelm interrupts your daily routine, grounding and breathing exercises can help you ground yourself in quickly.
5-4-3-2-1- Grounding Exercise
Name 5 things you can see.
Name 4 things you can touch.
Name 3 things you can hear.
Name 2 things you can smell.
Name 1 thing you can taste (if you can't do this one, it's okay).
Box Breathing
Inhale for 4 counts.
Hold for 4 counts.
Exhale for 4 counts.
Hold for 4 counts.
Repeat 3-5 rounds.
Counting or Naming
Count backward from 100 by 7s or 3s.
Name all the colors in the room or objects of the same color.
Name all the countries or states you know.
Pursed-Lip Breathing
Inhale through your nose for 2 counts.
Exhale slowly through pursed lips (like blowing out a candle) for 4 counts.
Repeat for several minutes.
Plant-based Meals that Calm the Nervous System
Many factors impact our nervous system and one of those is nutrition. What we intake through good can impact our stress levels and mood. Incorporating plant-based, nutrient-dense meals can be a natural way to soothe anxiety, improve sleep, and enhance focus.
Key Nutrients for a Calm Nervous System
Magnesium – Found in leafy greens, pumpkin seeds, almonds, and beans. Helps relax muscles and nerves.
Omega-3 Fatty Acids – Found in chia seeds, flaxseeds, walnuts, and algae. Supports brain and nerve function.
Vitamin B Complex – Found in whole grains, legumes, nuts, seeds, and leafy greens. Supports neurotransmitter production.
Antioxidants – Found in colorful fruits and vegetables like berries, spinach, and bell peppers. Protect nerves from oxidative stress.
Tryptophan & Serotonin Precursors – Found in oats, soy, nuts, and seeds. Helps the body produce serotonin for mood regulation.
Calming Plant-Based Meal Ideas
Breakfast
Lunch
Dinner
Snacks
Mixed nuts (almonds, walnuts, pumpkin seeds)
Fresh fruit with nut butter
Dark chocolate (70%+)
Tips for Maximum Nervous System Support
Limit refined sugar and processed foods, which can spike cortisol and anxiety.
Stay hydrated—even mild dehydration can increase stress levels.
Incorporate calming herbs and spices like turmeric, cinnamon, ginger, and basil.
Practice mindful eating—slow, intentional meals can enhance the calming effects.
Reflection Prompts to Carry into the New Year
These prompts are an invitation to pause, reset, and reconnect with your values.
What challenged you the most, and what did it teach you?
In what ways did you grow emotionally, mentally, or spiritually?
Which relationships energized you? Which ones drained you?
What accomplishment (big or small) are you most proud of?
What do you want to leave behind as you enter the new year?
Which habits no longer align with the person you’re becoming?
What values do you want to prioritize more intentionally?
Where in your life do you want to create more discipline or structure?
What passions or hobbies do you want to explore or return to?
What passions or hobbies do you want to explore or return to?

The end of the year isn’t just a countdown—it’s a chance to pause, breathe, and intentionally close one chapter before opening another. By investing in your mental and emotional health now, you step into the new year lighter, wiser, and more resilient.
Part of the content in this post was with help from artificial intelligence. It is recommended that readers verify the information and consult with experts as needed. The author and blog owner are not responsible for the correctness of AI-generated content.







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